So 1 woke up and this is really whats on my mind!!!
After 24 not so fabulous yrs of being on this earth,I have come to realize that pretense seems to be the order of the day with many of my so so called friends and acquaintances!!
School is out n all my peers from kindergarten all the way up r distributed all over the world but the main thing on everybody's mind is their advancement in life!Some of us are fortunate enough to have things handed down to us and parents who have spoilt us to the point where we don't even have to work too hard to make ends meet!
My problem really is,why is it that it is sometimes seen fit to trample someone else's dreams for selfish and unnecessary gains??
Ppl hiding things from each other because it might somehow make them a bit prettier or fashion forward!! The ppl who make our clothes and do our hair need to make money too so why hide because u don't want someone else to have a simular style,in fact, if u hate the idea so much how about telling them no u don't appreciate it instead of ignoring them or constantly bragging??
Then there are those who pretend to like you because of who u know!! Networking is key to survival in today's society but constantly using a friend for who they know doesn't come off right with the used party!
Friends of friends,this one is for u!!! Don't start mix up when u don't know what the matter really is! If u truly care then u will get down to the "meat of the matter" n try to have it resolved confidentially instead of making your 600+ friends on fb know about it!!
Hating for no reason is another touchy area that some of us may face. I have learnt that not everybody is going to like u especially if they don't know u...don't pretend to hate someone because your friend hates them...when they become friends,the person might neglect your friendship that once was but because you don't have a mind of your own it just went sour!!
Not to leave the guys out of this one,let's touch on a few issues like trying to spoil a great friendship by falling for someone who obviously has no interest whatsoever in you...not cool!!
Relationship wise,I never seem to understand how men can pretend that everything is all good when they ignore their girlfriends for bed,tv and chilling with friends...if u need a companion to sit n watch your every move then get a dog! Women tend to be more emotional than their male counterparts and most times their emotions r crushed due to lack of compromise,care and most importantly, ATTENTION!!
With all of this said...my little headache just went away (((wheeeeewwww))
But on a serious note we all need to do a bit of soul searching n try to help each other in this economic crisis we face...never take your friends for granted,always appreciate them because the simplest gestures really do count!!
School is out n all my peers from kindergarten all the way up r distributed all over the world but the main thing on everybody's mind is their advancement in life!Some of us are fortunate enough to have things handed down to us and parents who have spoilt us to the point where we don't even have to work too hard to make ends meet!
My problem really is,why is it that it is sometimes seen fit to trample someone else's dreams for selfish and unnecessary gains??
Ppl hiding things from each other because it might somehow make them a bit prettier or fashion forward!! The ppl who make our clothes and do our hair need to make money too so why hide because u don't want someone else to have a simular style,in fact, if u hate the idea so much how about telling them no u don't appreciate it instead of ignoring them or constantly bragging??
Then there are those who pretend to like you because of who u know!! Networking is key to survival in today's society but constantly using a friend for who they know doesn't come off right with the used party!
Friends of friends,this one is for u!!! Don't start mix up when u don't know what the matter really is! If u truly care then u will get down to the "meat of the matter" n try to have it resolved confidentially instead of making your 600+ friends on fb know about it!!
Hating for no reason is another touchy area that some of us may face. I have learnt that not everybody is going to like u especially if they don't know u...don't pretend to hate someone because your friend hates them...when they become friends,the person might neglect your friendship that once was but because you don't have a mind of your own it just went sour!!
Not to leave the guys out of this one,let's touch on a few issues like trying to spoil a great friendship by falling for someone who obviously has no interest whatsoever in you...not cool!!
Relationship wise,I never seem to understand how men can pretend that everything is all good when they ignore their girlfriends for bed,tv and chilling with friends...if u need a companion to sit n watch your every move then get a dog! Women tend to be more emotional than their male counterparts and most times their emotions r crushed due to lack of compromise,care and most importantly, ATTENTION!!
With all of this said...my little headache just went away (((wheeeeewwww))
But on a serious note we all need to do a bit of soul searching n try to help each other in this economic crisis we face...never take your friends for granted,always appreciate them because the simplest gestures really do count!!
