February...the month that everybody uses to decide if their spouse loves them. A very popular tradition, one I may add that i do not partake in. My spouse needs to know I love them every single day, that's how relationships should be.

Speaking of Relationships, why do some people feel that they can just pick up someone out of thin air and start a relationship with them? I mean where are the dates? Movies, dinner, drinks even lunch..nutn??!!! People cannot possible be that lonely to have a relationship where dating isn't involved UNLESS it's just meant to be a short term thing then by all means go ahead.

I can never understand some men, (i'm going to use men as an example because i'm a woman), they will tell you all kinds of things over the phone or social media then tell you that you are in a relationship...come on now!!! Not even teenagers are doing that anymore. And where do they get off calling people baby? Helloooooooo...I'm a grown woman please address me by my name!!! Then there are those who are all about social media and their life out of it is extremely boring...how about you do some volunteering, learn a skill...find something constructive to do with some of your time to help somebody instead of spending all day taking selfies. These just helps to distinguish the men from the boys and show why most women are now attracted to older men. It's not just the security, it's the fact that the vast majority doesn't engulf themselves in things of no purpose. 

We need to take a second look at our lives, we all have a purpose and i'm pretty sure it's not just making/ having babies, partying and drinking. There are so many people out there who are less fortunate, who cannot afford to be bored or they might lose their next meal. It's for us, the able bodies of society to set an example and help others. 

 Having a relationship is a beautiful thing but let's be real, great relationships cannot be forced...those usually end before they even start. In the mean time, find something worthwhile to do. Life is way too short to be hung up on some man /woman when there is work out there to be done. 

SERVICE ABOVE SELF

TW